(Moved) Trait/Personality based interfaith marriage?

Hi. Love the mod. Have spent tons of time with it. I have a suggestion concerning the rules about marriage and invitation. All the options seem rather arbitrary, and not so much based on the characters in play. How about, that instead of having a gamewide rule, there's an option regarding marriage where zealots will never agree to marry someone from another group, cynics won't give a toss, as they have other considerations, and those who are neither will have a heavy penalty (-50 or something), as they're mostly worried what other people might think. And then you could do something similar for invites. Wouldn't that be an idea for a third marriage and invite option? So it's more about the characters and who they are. The gamewide rules seem too restictive. And the open rules don't take it into consideration at all.