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Post by sourjapes on Mar 12, 2019 7:53:56 GMT
If I send my son on a voyage overseas and instruct him to find a spouse, he shouldn't then refuse to marry the very woman HE picked out.
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Post by knuckey on Mar 12, 2019 17:18:11 GMT
This sounds more like a bug than a suggestion. Refuse how? What event triggered?
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Post by sourjapes on Mar 13, 2019 1:35:05 GMT
This sounds more like a bug than a suggestion. Refuse how? What event triggered? Well I got this event that you get every now and then, at least since installing Holy Fury (which I only did for this latest version). Basically, it's a narrative box where my sons storms into my chambers angrily demanding that he won't marry whomever and in most cases the only option offered is "Well I can't make you marry, Son"
I've had it happen twice before, but those were in normal circumstances. It did seem like a bug in this case since obviously my son had just asked for my consent to marry this foreigner, and then he refuses to marry her when I agree to it.
I did have a son refuse to marry the daughter of my new wife, who was not his mother, citing "kinship". However that made sense to me since his bride would have been his sister by marriage and after the Dance I recall Lord Hightower took some flak for marrying his father's widow, since she was in terms of law his new "mother" and the High Septon thought it was incestuous.
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Post by knuckey on Mar 31, 2019 18:33:40 GMT
OK I understand now, it is the foreign tour event. I will add a check on that event preventing this!
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Post by jedi7000nathan on Apr 7, 2019 19:06:44 GMT
That event should just be modded out in the first place, the person should not be able to refuse the marriage period; in medieval times when it came to marriage in noble families the couple had no say in the matter and if they complained they were disinherited.
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Post by sourjapes on Apr 8, 2019 4:11:42 GMT
That event should just be modded out in the first place, the person should not be able to refuse the marriage period; in medieval times when it came to marriage in noble families the couple had no say in the matter and if they complained they were disinherited. Is that how it works, at least with sons, in Westoros though? I'm unclear about it. I know the Blackfish kept refusing marriages and so he parted ways with his brother, but he wasn't the son of the lord. Was he the heir at the time he left the Riverlands after falling out of favor with Hoster?
I'm a little unclear how the event works. Sometimes I can make my son marry anyway but most of the time I have no choice. An authoritative lord should be able to make their children marry, though of-course the refusing child might run off somewhere if they are brave or stubborn enough. You should only be forced into accepting their refusal if they are not your child and you are content or craven and not also authoritative or wroth. Mayhaps?
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Post by lordtheodore on Apr 8, 2019 15:51:27 GMT
Prince Duncan the small refused to marry the daughter of Lyonel Laughing Storm Prince Daeron Targaryen (third son of Aegon V) refused to marry Olenna Redwyne
King Jaehaerys II refused to marry celia Tully and eloped with his sister shaera
Queen Shaera (wife of Jaehaerys II) refused to marry Luthor Tyrell anmd eloped with her brother Jaehaerys Good Queen Alysanne refused to marry Orryn Baratheon and eloped with her brother Jaehaerys
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