Becoming gay at a tournament event is way too frequent

I can’t tell you how many of my courtiers become gay when they go to tournaments, it’s absurd to think that men who spend their time around burly white dudes for most of their time randomly decide they’ve been into the cock their entire life,even though they have a lover. I’m not saying that the event is bad or anything but you know kinda frustrating when you need a character to breed as many kids they can.